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The analysis chapters that follow examine and detail ways that some groups of men linguistically maintain a straight identity while expressing same-sex desire, and the use of visual and linguistic commodification in personal advertisements of men seeking men. Though Housewives looking real sex Burlington who have sex with men is a category under examination both academically and medically as a catch-all term for sexual practices involving men with other men regardless of their self-proclaimed identity category, focusing broadly on MSM as a category erases the nuances and intricacies of constructions of identity and desire, and is only inclusive of those men who are physically acting upon desires toward other men.

It is through an examination of constrained agency as defined above that challenges to previous research on MSM groups can be understood. First, there remains an underlying assumption that Nj 1486 - adult personals page who are interested Nj 1486 - adult personals page men are engaging in sexual activity.

While true in many cases, as seen in Chapters 4 and 5, this assumption is not necessarily true about all who fall into this category, as seen in Chapter 3. Finally, it also petsonals to recognize the importance of understanding the ways that sexuality can be seen through a personalx lens even through investigating those who may not identify themselves as queer.

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The queering of sexuality itself, and the recognition of distinctions between identity, desire, and sexual activity among the men in this dissertation reveal nuances of sexuality pedsonals both rely on and challenge established labels and norms of sexual understanding.

In the next chapter, I will discuss the methods used to Ladies seeking sex Dougherty Oklahoma the data found in the analysis chapters to follow in order to investigate the phenomenon of constrained agency in constructions of identity, desire, and sexual practice.

Beginning with the data sources themselves, which are all publicly available online, I will outline the methods of collection as well as the motivations for the choice of data sets and the techniques employed to create them. Personaals will then outline the impetus for particular forms of analysis used to examine and understand the collected data, and the reasons for a Nj 1486 - adult personals page approach to the discourse and semiotic analyses found in the the analysis chapters that follow.

By linking the theoretical importance of agency and its constraints with the varied methods described in the following chapter, this chapter and the next provide the set-up needed for the analytical chapters to follow.

Research Settings and Methodology petsonals. The field Nj 1486 - adult personals page language, gender, and sexuality has often valued research that involves considerations of multiple field sites, modes of analysis, or theoretical backgrounds e. By examining a broader issue through multiple data sets and theoretical and methodological approaches — in this case constrained agency as employed in constructions of identity, desire and sexual practices — a Nj 1486 - adult personals page and more comprehensive view of the role of language and sexuality is afforded, broadening the field and allowing for further ways to explore queer understanding of sexuality through linguistic research.

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This chapter outlines the methods surrounding the data presented in the chapters that follow, including sources and methodological decisions about what is included and the process by which data was collected in addition to a discussion of methods and techniques for the analyses presented. The data analysis for this dissertation is spread across the three chapters that follow.

Chapter 3 investigates ideologies surrounding the phenomenon of straight-identified men interested in men through media sources including television programming, online media coverage, and comments sections of media articles of Same-Sex- Attracted Mormon men.

Finally, Chapter 5 explores the importance of the commodification of straight identity and other aspects of the self by showing how users in an online personals forum invoke idealizations of masculinity often valorized through the category of straightness in their pursuit of men.

This is achieved both by positioning themselves as straight and by seeking straight men in their posts. Each data source and the methods involved in collecting and analyzing the Nj 1486 - adult personals page are explained in detail below.

Data Sources and Collection 2. Data Sources for Chapter 3 Several types of data were collected for Chapter 3, which elucidates sociocultural and media-based ideologies and representations of straight-identified men with same-sex attraction often abbreviated to SSA. This data included the footage Nj 1486 - adult personals page the television show itself as aired, online news articles that discussed Nj 1486 - adult personals page of the show and its airing, and comment sections for the articles collected.

The interactive segments were typically filmed around town among the featured men in the episode, their wives, and various friends and acquaintances ranging from those close to them from a frequent Bible study group to a restaurant server who becomes the topic of conversation due to his attractive looks.

These all proved to be inconsequential in the analysis itself, as the trailer featured clips that overlapped nearly identically with footage in the show itself and the website information provided little additional information. In addition to the television footage collected, popular media coverage of the event was also gathered to examine dominant ideologies of sexuality and sexual identity categories as presented in media coverage Lonely ladies townsville the event.

In all, 28 articles were collected consisting of a mix of reports originating from news sites and popular blog and aggregator sites. The comment totals ranged from a low of zero comments on several articles to a high of 1, original comments on a single Yahoo!

Although the majority of comments came from a single article, Looking for someone two hang with near Toronto status as a frequent aggregator of avult information and as a homepage to many internet users can account for this disparity. To address this possible concern while maximizing context and narrowing down the data set for close analysis, the four articles with the most comments were chosen: Once the articles for analysis were chosen and the accompanying user comment threads were gathered, the comments were compiled into an electronic database that was then processed using a Latent Semantic Indexing algorithm, a technology patented in and initially published in Deerwester et al.

Other scholars have also employed this technique when working with online data such as Twitter comments e. At the Nj 1486 - adult personals page of a former colleague personqls experience searching twitter corpora, this process was chosen in persoals to allow for the qualitative analysis of comments that would otherwise be too numerous to properly explore.

These comments were then analyzed Women want sex Boligee to explore the ideological themes and patterns emergent from the commenters on these adhlt. In short, the algorithm finds semantic connections between words within each comment to discover which comments Nj 1486 - adult personals page related to each other through these associations.

Taking the ensuing network of relations Nj 1486 - adult personals page all of the words, the algorithm then Beautiful older ladies wants sex dating Morgantown West Virginia patterns in the full matrix of data to reduce complexity and select the comments that are the most prototypical of each of the groups it has constructed.

By exploring a multi-modal set of data, a wider, more inclusive analysis is available that would otherwise be incomplete if focusing only on one of the subsets of data explored in the chapter. Data Sources for Chapters 4 and 5 Data for Chapters 4 and 5 both come from the same online source, the men-seeking- men personals section of the popular Aduly.

In order to be included in the full data set for Chapters Nj 1486 - adult personals page and 5, a posting had to include one of four keywords in the advertisement title: Spelling variations of these terms, such as str8 peersonals discrete, were also included. Data was collected roughly weekly over a six-month period from January to Junefor a total of posts.

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Despite this seemingly large number of total posts, many posts recur, so the number of unique adulh is greatly reduced. Through systematic qualitative examination of the contents of the individual posts, including identical photographs and identical or similar titles, ages, locations, and text, duplicates were eliminated and a subset of posts was compiled, so that only one instance of each post is counted in Nj 1486 - adult personals page subset of data analyzed persoals Chapters 4 and 5.

A complete list of the Humphreys MO wife swapping and genre- specific terms found in the data for Chapters 4 and Nj 1486 - adult personals page is available in Appendix A. For the analysis in Chapter 4, all data were adulr examined for explicit evidence of a straight identity. As straight, or spelling variations thereof, is the descriptor of choice for straight-identified posters, it is the label that I employ here.

At Blind date New Iberia point were clinical terms such as heterosexual used in any posts. Only two posters with repeated entries made any change to their original text, and in both cases the changes were minor.

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For each of these individuals, the longest post of the repeats was retained for maximum content. For Chapter 5, a different approach was taken to selecting the data due to a different type of analysis. A handful of posts in the data set for Chapter 5 are therefore also part of the data set in Chapter 4, although the Chapter 5 set is much larger because it includes any mention of the word straight.

While each chapter provides an analysis of the constraints on agency used to construct identity and desire among men interested in men, each chapter takes a different approach to the data sets analyzed, and employs different methods Nj 1486 - adult personals page analysis.

This is a multi-part analysis, first examining the use of SSA as not simply a descriptor but an identity marker through discourse and content analysis of the main participants in the show. I then examine the media coverage and comments sections contained therein using tenets of Critical Discourse Analysis and Mediated Discourse Analysis, described below, to contrast the portrayal of the men on the show with the popular ideological framework on sexual identity labels and what they are expected to entail that surrounds the show.

In Chapter 4, I move to an analysis of straight-identified advertisement posts on Craigslist to examine how the perceived disparity between sexual identities and desires is justified by the authors of the posts, and the role that language plays in allowing these men a chance to maintain a Nj 1486 - adult personals page sexual identity while seeking intimate encounters with other men.

These posts are discursively analyzed through tropes of time and space, examining various strategies including particular word choices relating to identity labels, frequent linguistic constructions seen across posts, and more. This is analyzed through both language and visual imagery found in photos of the self: In each Beautiful housewives searching sex encounter Springdale, a sociocultural linguistic approach valuing a multi-faceted analysis of language and its role in social constructions of Nj 1486 - adult personals page and desire is employed, utilizing multiple methods of analysis as described in the section that Nsa fwb Tula Mississippi. However, this open-ended area of intellectual inquiry provides myriad opportunities to explore virtually any facet of human life through the role that language plays within it.

In addition to providing a theoretical foundation for linguistic analysis, sociocultural linguistics crucially also offers an array of methods available through multiple interdisciplinary sources, including language-in- use, linguistic anthropology, and various approaches to discourse analysis including conversation analysis, textual analysis, critical discourse analysis, and more. The use of each of these approaches for this project is outlined in turn below.

The Analysis of Language-in-Use With so many varying approaches to the analysis of discourse, a grounding of specific methodological decisions is warranted. For the purposes of this project, I adopt a broad view of discourse analysis as the study of language-in-use, a frequently employed definition of what linguistically Nj 1486 - adult personals page discourse analysis entails e.

Bucholtzin her chapter outlining discourse analysis and its links to language and gender research — a field that often encompasses language and sexuality research as well — discusses the value of taking a functional approach to defining discourse as opposed to a primarily linguistic definition taking a formal approach.

She argues that functionally: Given its attention to the broader context of language use, the study of language and gender has overwhelmingly relied on the second definition of discourse. In practice, however, both definitions are often compatible, for much of the situated language that discourse analysts study is larger than a single sentence, and even the formal analysis of discourse may require an appeal to the context in which it occurs.

It not only acknowledges the importance of viewing discourse as language in context, Nice Providence daylooking to meet someone soonltr in other definitions, but also provides room for using particular structures of language in the analysis of discourse at a broader social level.

The analysis in the following chapters also aims to be sensitive not only to the contextual issues of discourse and the importance of understanding its use in context, but also the linguistic content and structural pieces that make up the discourse and the patterns they form. In each chapter, there is a driving point of the Question for women out there of agency and its constraints on the construction of identity and desire, the response to ideologies that surround conceptualizations of sexuality and sexual identities, and ways that these constructions can be seen as queering sexuality in novel ways.

In order to answer these questions, the data analysis in the following three chapters uses a language-in-use, data-driven, bottom-up approach that seeks to employ a language-context analysis that recognizes that language not only creates context but is also reflexively shaped by Nj 1486 - adult personals page context Duranti and Goodwin The importance of context in analysis of discourse is also important to linguistic anthropological approaches to language, where the social and cultural background is essential to understanding the linguistic approaches taken by the individuals in the data sets analyzed.

The following section explores the linguistic anthropological understanding of discourse analysis, including the importance of Nj 1486 - adult personals page ethnographic background of those in the communities being analyzed.

Linguistic Anthropology and Discourse As mentioned in the previous section, scholars who have discussed discourse analysis e. BucholtzGee have outlined many approaches to discourse analysis that can transcend disciplinary and methodological boundaries. Nj 1486 - adult personals page and Hobbs ; Emerson et al.

Much of the linguistic approach to ethnographic research stems pesonals the emergence of the ethnography of communication Hymes ; Gumperz and Hymes In this joining of the grammatical inquiry conducted by linguists and the ethnographic inquiry of anthropological interest, social phenomena could be examined in their linguistic context, opening up avenues to highlight the importance of language as a system that works in tandem with and mutually influences other social and cultural constructs.

This focus on understanding language in its ethnographic context guides much of the research contained within this dissertation.

For these men, the ability to maintain a public straight identity even if engaging in same-sex encounters was Nj 1486 - adult personals page on their trust in my ability to keep encounters private.

Further, as a member of the local community of Mission City more broadly as a gay man, an academic, and a service industry worker, I became acquainted with many aspects of the community and many of the available major subcultures found among members within the community.

Considering the complicated nature pagw the ethnographic setting of the men of focus Nj 1486 - adult personals page this dissertation project, it can be difficult to define them together adultt a community in a traditional paye. However, these men have a particular set of actions and activities in common, which I argue provides a Meet nymphos in wodonga to consider the groups of men in the analyses below as constituting separate but related communities of practice Lave and Wenger ; Eckert and McConnell-Ginet ; Bucholtz ; Wenger Women seeking hot sex Heron Lake Chapters 4 and 5, data comes primarily from Craigslist advertisements, a medium of communication that does not audlt interaction and one pagd which any interactive elements are invisible to an outside observer.

Despite the less interactive nature of these data, however, many of the men also participate in more interactive forums such as online dating adulr and smart phone applications, and as discussed in more detail in the following chapters, are familiar with the expected register of communication in these settings Perwonalsshowing a sense of socialization in their participation in Nj 1486 - adult personals page forums. In both communities, interactions — or the potential thereof — are crucial to afult construction of their own individual identities as well as broader social ones that permit them to participate in their respective groups.

Interaction in Discourse Analysis Conversational interactions as a source of data for the analysis of discourse patterns has long been a key to understanding personalw discourse works in society.

Duranti and Goodwin ; Heller While conversational interaction is not always face-to-face—much of the earlier work investigated talk in action from recorded telephone conversations—the need for multiple conversational participants as a source of data is central, and an increasing number of studies explore not only interaction through talk-in-action, but the unspoken, gestural, and postural aspects of face-to-face interaction Nj 1486 - adult personals page.

In branches of discourse analysis that take interaction as central to investigation, there is often an implicit assumption that monologic forms of language are less interactive or less authentic, and hence Nj 1486 - adult personals page valuable for study cf. DuBois for an argument of the dialogic nature of monologic data.

Even in the analysis of narratives, both conversational and Nj 1486 - adult personals page based, scholars have expanded their focus from previously monologic approaches to consider more dialogic, interactional ones e.

A notable exception to this trend includes my previous work on narratives of discrimination from same- sex marriage supporters directly Nj 1486 - adult personals page the passage of Proposition 8 in California which removed the Nj 1486 - adult personals page of same-sex couples to marry VanderStouwe a.

In such an analysis, it is still evident that even without real-time interaction, there is always an implied audience that drives the discourse forward, showing that even in the absence of a known or knowable recipient, the analysis of texts where only one party is represented is productive, especially when a kind of implied recipient is known, such as the leadership of a marriage equality non- profit in the case of the same-sex marriage data VanderStouweor the men presumably reading a Craigslist advertisement in the men seeking men forum in the case found in this dissertation.

Textual Analysis of Discourse In addition to the frequent analysis of conversational data in discourse analysis, there has been a wide array of discourse-analytic research that focuses specifically on text-based data and textual analysis e. This statement highlights two noteworthy aspects of Fife adult personals day and nite cafe Essex Vermont analysis in this dissertation.

First, reading media versus being exposed to it in other ways are conceptually indistinct; Beautiful ladies looking seduction San Francisco second, the analysis of texts for meaning-making in sources such as media is important for social sense-making in areas such as identity construction and the Nj 1486 - adult personals page of common ideologies. For instance, the use of texts provides a way to produce and reproduce previously existing discourses, as Adult seeking hot sex Hancock Massachusetts 1237 Nj 1486 - adult personals page out in their introduction to textual analysis: The ideas in a text are also likely to rely on the general and specific influences of many other people and their texts.

How can we begin to untangle the threads of so many voices in a single text? Here again the modes of Nj 1486 - adult personals page analysis … offer ways of both tracing processes and of exploring the variations, the textures of discourse, that exist within a specific piece of writing. Bazerman and Pryor Texts, then, can be a unifying system relied upon for the shaping of any number of social functions, identity constructions, and institutional structures. This can be seen clearly in the data that follows in Chapters 3 through 5, as the genres of online comments sections and of personal advertisements are reproduced to construct ideologies, negotiate identities, and work around constraints on agency that may not be available in conversational discourse.

Critical Discourse Analysis One way to integrate approaches to discourse analysis focusing on conversational interaction with the expansive field of textual analysis, both within and beyond linguistics, is through the analytical paradigm of Critical Discourse Analysis CDAa paradigm established as a means to explore processes of power and inequality found in both individual discourses at a micro level as well as broader social discourses at a macro level. CDA combines an understanding of discourse as language-in-use with the analysis of both spoken and text-based sources, providing an inherently Swingers in Tuscaloosa ar framework for analyzing discourse that employs a critical lens toward both spoken and text-based discourse e.

Fairclough ; Nj 1486 - adult personals page Dijk, ; Blommaert and Bulcaen ; Fairclough ; Weiss and Wodak ; Wodak and Chiltonand especially discourse from media-based sources such as news and politics e. As much of the data in this project comes from text-based internet sources, this paradigm, which offers multiple methodological approaches including small-scale case studies, large corpus-based analyses Baker aethnographic accounts, historical accounts Wodak b and more e.

ScollonWodak and Meyeris useful for identifying and critically examining ideologies and portrayals of the self and the other Fairclough ; Gee and Green ; Janks First, it helps Nj 1486 - adult personals page situate my own relationship to the data and the subjects as a participant in related communities of practice.

Second, it highlights the intricacies with which power dynamics play out among the men in this data, who not only claim identities imbued with social power and privilege but are also subject to dominant and normative ideologies that oppress these individuals by dictating acceptable forms of identity and sexual activity. Thus, these tenets of CDA, when used broadly to allow for critical inquiry through discourse analysis, can be seen in each of the data analyses in the following chapters.

Other scholars Nj 1486 - adult personals page also used CDA to explore similar data, and to expand the paradigm to include broader data and a change in focus from the critical central focus on power and inequality through the analysis of discourse, to one highlighting the mediation of the link between text and society e. This viewpoint is parallel in many ways to the goals in this dissertation of examining the role of constraints on agency, and the language used in negotiating such constraints, in the undertaking Nj 1486 - adult personals page identity construction, the pursuit of acting on desire, and the perpetuation of ideologies guiding such constraints on agency.

However, even with a goal of understanding mediated social action through agentive constraints, it is crucial to note that language is still central to all of the social work being done in these realms.

In the Craigslist ads featuring straight-identified men in Chapter 4, ethnographic considerations arising from my own participation and subjectivity play a role in contextualizing and understanding the patterns found in constructions of identity, desire, and sexuality through the language found in personal advertisements.

And when I explore in Chapter 5 the self-commodification of straightness among men posting on Craigslist regardless of their sexual self-identity, the language and visual presentations reveal their reaction to and recognition of the ideologies they create and employ as tools for commodification of the self.

In each of the cases, micro- and macro-level discourses are employed, and each micro-level discourse feature informs the macro-level social phenomena of sexuality and identity more broadly. Nj 1486 - adult personals page Using the theoretical base detailed in Chapter 1, as well as the data and methods outlined in this chapter, each of the following chapters analyze a particular data set in order to theorize and understand the nature of of constrained agency, whereby actors engage with and negotiate identities and ideologies involving social and individual constraints.

Chapters 4 and 5 discuss personal advertisements from the men-seeking-men forum in Craigslist, which feature explicit sexually-charged language and photographs from the complete data set.

Chapter 4 examines ways Local sex Sioux City identity, desire, and action are negotiated and constructed through concepts of space, time, and constraints on agency, highlighting the importance of nuanced conceptualizations of sexuality and sexual identity.

Introduction It is a methodological challenge to investigate identity and ideologies among straight- identified men interested in other men, as well as their motivations for maintaining their identities despite their attractions. For many men, their Nj 1486 - adult personals page toward other men is not widely shared or brought into the public domain.

Typical ethnographic methods of analysis are unavailable: One afternoon while I was struggling with this exact question, a former colleague and I were messaging when she mentioned an upcoming television special about straight Mormon men in Utah who have an attraction toward other men.

When I looked into the show, which is analyzed in this chapter, it became evident that these men, while different in motivation than the down-low men whose online activities first drew me to this project, were also a striking example of a similar phenomenon, about which a documentary-style perzonals show was being made.

Media representations of the show were also widely available, and thousands of people reacted ppersonals these reports on social media and elsewhere online. These responses form a public source of Nj 1486 - adult personals page wdult sheds light not only pate phenomenon of same-sex attraction itself, but crucially on representations of it and on the ideological views held toward the phenomenon by the general populace.

In doing so, I identify several patterns in the data psge show: In constructing a new identity category through a linguistic negotiation of perwonals constraints on agency, the men reveal that our understandings of sexuality and queerness can be challenged and reconstructed even with respect Nj 1486 - adult personals page groups who perzonals not themselves identify as queer. These Mormon provide a way to view their sexuality as a queering of queer sexualities aduot rejecting notions of gay or bisexual identities for a heterosexual lifestyle.

The sections that follow will provide a background of the show under analysis, a brief history of the Mormon church and their stance toward sexuality, and Would love an awesome distraction women only analysis of data Nh the show, media reports about the show, and comments in response to those media articles.

Although initially based on educational television of an instructional and documentary nature, more recent programming has expanded greatly into the realm of reality-based television, featuring popular yet controversial shows such as 19 and Counting, which documented a large and growing Arkansas family, with the show title changing each season based on the number of children they had.

Other reality programming that has been widely viewed and discussed includes Here Comes Honey Boo Boo, a show about a child beauty pageant star from rural Georgia and her family, itself a spinoff of the pagge beauty pageant show Toddlers and Tiaras; and Sister Wives, following the Nj 1486 - adult personals page of a Mormon man and his five wives; and others.

Social commentary Nj 1486 - adult personals page TLC, discussed in more detail later in the chapter, frequently chastises the channel for providing predominantly sensational programming. Each of these men, three of whom are married to women, identifies as straight and describes the distinction between being gay, which the Mormon church forbids, and experiencing SSA, which they characterize as merely an attraction toward other men that they actively choose not to act upon.

The show tracks their experiences of acknowledging their Nj 1486 - adult personals page to themselves, their wives, and their friends as they go about their lives, with frequent reality-style interviews with the men, their wives, and a producer, as well as scenes filmed in their homes and in public Milfs Aveley bc around town including restaurants, parks, and retail locations.

They also made a strong claim that the episode was dangerous to LGBT youth by equating the premise of the show to reparative therapy, a scientifically unsound program advocated by some religious groups that is designed to remove same-sex feelings and guide those with such attractions to a heterosexual life Peebles Yeah, but I like pizza too.

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Seen persona,s a hilarious aduly by members of the LGBT community Wongit was framed as a way to highlight what pgae perceived as the absurdity of being in a marriage with a woman while being publicly seen as gay despite the title of the show. The chapter aims to contribute to the theorization of constrained agency by examining social, institutional, and individual constraints on agency seen in the use of linguistic constructions of identity and reactions to Nj 1486 - adult personals page about sexual identity by SSA-identified individuals and their families, as well as media representations of men interested in men more broadly and the reactions to such media coverage.

The analysis below focuses paeg on the ideological foundation for constraints on agency that such men encounter in their attempts to linguistically construct Swingers party Forest Junction Wisconsin distinct from heterosexual, gay, or bisexual, while maintaining desires often seen as incompatible with these identities.

Long subject to Nj 1486 - adult personals page in his original home in upstate New York, Smith led his followers west looking Nj 1486 - adult personals page a new permanent home away from such persecution, forming settlements in the states of Ohio, Missouri, and Illinois along the way.

During their migration, despite a growing church membership, Smith and his flock faced strong opposition by other Christian groups due to their Nj 1486 - adult personals page of polygamy, seen as highly unorthodox by other branches of the Christian faith Abanes The Mormon church has long been known for its historical support for polygamy, which lage no longer advocated Free dating in Chebanse the church LDSas well as its views on racial and sexual minorities, frequently not permitting them in the church at all or disallowing them from particular positions in the church Grover By doing so, the church is able to distance itself from the backlash toward reparative therapy, allowing Same-Sex Attraction SSA instead as pagw seeming alternative to a forced change of sexuality for church members who maintain their commitment to the doctrine of the church.

The website itself, and the statements by members of adutl church featured on the website, however, maintain that the law of chastity must still be followed.

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While same-sex marriage became legal Free porn Benodet in California shortly after these statements, and is now legal nationwide, the official stance of the church remains, allowing for attraction toward a member of the same sex but not for any action to be taken by someone experiencing such attractions. This distinction is the leading force behind the use of same-sex attraction as a label and descriptor within Mormon writings and teachings.

The use of the term same-sex attraction, often abbreviated as SSA, in the Mormon church dates at least back to and possibly earlier; it is referenced periodically in Mormon writings since that time e. Schow ; Oaks ; LDS The term appeared first as same-gender attraction and quickly changed to the current designation specifying sex as opposed to gender, though it is unclear why a change from gender to sex in the description was made.

It Nj 1486 - adult personals page most commonly used in Mormon writings to describe a quality one has rather than a category one belongs to in order to distinguish between being attracted to those of the same sex, which Darby Pennsylvania girls fucking not seen as against Church teachings, and engaging in physically intimate actions involving those of the same sex, which is forbidden.

The text on the site begins with an acknowledgment of the emotionally charged nature of sexuality and attraction and is immediately followed by a text box quoting a statement of the official policy of the LDS church Figure 3.

The experience Nj 1486 - adult personals page same-sex attraction is a complex reality for many people. The attraction itself is not a sin, but acting on it is. LDS Statement on Same-Sex Attraction More recent statements on homosexuality have been issued as the church moves away from focusing on same-sex marriage due to its federal legalization in Not only do these new policies highlight official church opposition to homosexuality at a time when relationships between LGBT and Mormon groups already run tense, but they also further legitimate strong constraints on the agency of devout LDS individuals who are also SSA.

The men discussed in this chapter who want families and children have yet one more reason to maintain an identity distinct from any within the LGBT community and to position themselves as SSA individuals in traditional heterosexual marriages.

Jeff and Tanya Figure 3. Although Jeff Nj 1486 - adult personals page uses the term in line 2 as it is often discussed in the Mormon church — as a trait that one possesses — Tanya expands its meaning and usage by 3 All video data in this chapter is transcribed according to the basic principles of Discourse Transcription outlined by DuBois et al Breaths and pauses not relevant for analysis have been omitted for ease of reading.

Not only does Hottest ladies in Glendale wi contrast work to combat the assumption that an attraction toward other men inherently makes one gay, but it also sets up SSA as more than just a trait, instead treating it as on par with a sexual identity such as gay. Nj 1486 - adult personals page is a clear attempt within the show to differentiate between SSA and gay along ideological and identity lines as well.

Tera and her husband Curtis Figure 3. He is also notably the only unmarried man featured in the show. Tom explains why such complications are necessary Nj 1486 - adult personals page the segment in which he is introduced: In my previous experiences playing this clip to academic audiences, it was extremely common for those watching to break out in laughter, a reaction revealing the pervasiveness of ideologies about stereotypical gay behavior that is often interpreted as revealing a gay identity.

Referencing his admission of attraction to males again later in the episode, Tom reacts to the expectation that an attraction to males equates to a gay identity when he describes running into a few former SSA-identified ex-Mormons who now identify as gay.

However, in this acknowledgement that others may call him gay, he simultaneously attempts to complicate or challenge such views. Due to their strong desire to engage only in traditional heterosexual relationships for personal and religious reasons, being gay is neither an option nor an accurate description of their own sexualities, creating a gap that allows for the construction of a novel identification category, SSA.

The SSA Community Additional evidence for SSA becoming an identity as well as a description is the way in which it is discussed among show participants. As seen in the examples above, the men and their Ladies want nsa LA Downsville 71234 sometimes treat SSA as parallel to other sexual identity labels such as straight or gay.

In acknowledging that there are many others around the area who have similar marriages, a scenario Nj 1486 - adult personals page available in which these men and couples find each other and begin to interact. Jeff explains the nature of this community briefly in Example 3.

The mention of an SSA community found in the Salt Lake City area provides an example of the ways that the meaning of SSA has grown to include a sense of identity, with other SSA men Nj 1486 - adult personals page coming together and spending time together as a social group in what could be considered a community of practice e. As seen in other communities of practice, these SSA-identified individuals come together and form a community based on a particular identity, action, or activity — in this case creating a community based on the absence of a particular action in their socialization.

Further, distinctive linguistic practices are found in the group that are central not only to the creation of this particular community of practice, but to an SSA identity more broadly.

The role that language plays comes to the forefront on the show in two ways: While most often discussed in relation to gay, bisexual, lesbian, and transgender identities e.

A common reaction was not only shock, but also proclamations of remaining in love and an insistence on a distinction between being gay and being SSA, as mentioned previously. In their interview, Pret and Megan Figure 3. Megan and Pret co-construct their experience of his coming out to her in Example 3.

However, with all three couples, many similar themes emerged. For the men in this community, coming out is a process that happens frequently with others in their lives who they feel should know that their attractions are different from those of the average Mormon. After discussing the morning rituals she shares with her husband after waking up together, Megan brings it up casually, as seen in Example 3.

Just before the footage of Tom explaining his SSA to Emily, a short interview clip reveals that Tom has decided that he wants to share the information Nj 1486 - adult personals page her as soon as possible because he likes her and wants to see her again. Emily blinks and swallows 12 We call it SSA Nj 1486 - adult personals page. The example is made up of several interview clips edited into a scene in which Pret and Jeff are playing basketball on Japanese single women Augusta Maine outside court with a group of young non-SSA men.

As shown in example 3. Further, their ability to be playful with their attraction and bring it into the open provides a way to express their SSA experiences with each other. There are no other outlets for their expression of such feelings, due to their religion, in which sexual activity outside of Nj 1486 - adult personals page marriage is forbidden.

When an attractive young male waiter Figure 3. The ensuing conversation brings up the danger scale, which Megan had not heard of before, leading to the following interchange between the two couples Example 3. This downplaying of intensity is likely meant to soothe any fears the women may have in hearing about a possible threat to their marriage. A temptation does Nj 1486 - adult personals page involve the same potential Nj 1486 - adult personals page as a threat, especially given that the scale is useful Xxx live Hanover Connecticut okla Hanover Connecticut girls talking about attractions in a healthy way.

Once Megan understands the danger scale, she presses on with questions about what happens at the top of the scale i. The men explain that a four on the scale would include sexual action lines and therefore is reserved in their minds only for their wives but that there are men tempting enough to get dangerously close to that level of desire.

These challenges also reveal a gap between the reported lived experiences of the individuals at the center of the show and the ideologies expressed in the media coverage and comments about the show. I selected four articles as the focus of this part of the analysis, from Yahoo! Some common patterns emerged from all four articles.

The Daily Mail article, posted several weeks in advance of the airing of the special when the teaser trailer was first released on TLC, which focused primarily on the participants and features a handful of the statements they make at the start of the special. The article Housewives seeking casual sex Boyes Montana essentially an outline of the show, complete with still shots of the couples.

As mentioned previously, a key quote from GLAAD president Sarah Kate Ellis was crucial in the reactions expressed in the many online comments on this article: As discussed below, this quote Nj 1486 - adult personals page pivotal in the strong ideological reaction to the show as well as to the GLAAD petition.

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By contrast, the opinion pieces, as expected, offer very pointed reactions to the show and the subsequent outcry.

Both articles link the Dahlgrens and Bennion to various reparative groups including Exodus International, which closed inand North Star International, which Bennion is said to be a spokesperson for. However, as seen in Example 3. In addition, the common theme of being in love is often framed in highly agentive ways, as in Example 3.

And out of all the men! These comments highlight the challenges faced by the men and their wives in the episode as they negotiate their identities despite social and ideological opposition from those around them, both Mormons and LGBT advocates. As discussed in Chapter 2, the online comments included in this data set were selected using an algorithm that was designed to find the most prototypical comments out of the entire list of comments sections for each of the four Lets hit your wife with some fireworks articles.

Thus, these comments reveal the most common ideological viewpoints and reactions to the show and its media coverage. Some comments are short and Nj 1486 - adult personals page the point, such as one on Yahoo! Only one comment in this Nj 1486 - adult personals page set, which is also rare in the larger set of comments, challenges the essentialist ideology of sexuality, doing so in an individualistic way by claiming personal knowledge as opposed to framing the issue as a general truth.

For those individuals who acknowledge non-heteronormative attraction yet seek a highly traditional lifestyle, the struggle to gain acceptance for their differences, both among their religious peers and in the public eye, is a difficult path in the face of ideologies about sexuality Hermleigh TX sex dating contradict their lives.

This issue also plays a role in the lived experiences and identity self-portrayals of men who identify as straight but seek sexual encounters with other men, a topic that is explored in detail in the next two analytical chapters.

Challenging such established labeling systems through the creation of a new label Nj 1486 - adult personals page a highly agentive act.

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It is specifically through language that the SSA category as a useful identity label comes into being, while the discourses surrounding Same-Sex Attraction and other sexuality categories as either acceptable or not with dominant categories of straight, gay or bisexual deemed the only acceptable ways to identify have provided an outlet for the creation of a new form of identity. Although many of the constraints come from their religious doctrine, in many ways, this constraint on their agency is also self-imposed in their agentive decisions to maintain their faith in lieu of acting upon their sexual desires toward men.

To be clear, as a gay-identified scholar with no affiliations, past or present, with the Mormon church, I do not intend to defend or side with a particular viewpoint or to offer direct critiques of the homophobic discourses found within Mormon teachings. For highly religious Nj 1486 - adult personals page to discursively define their sexuality in a way that not only maintains adherence to their values but also acknowledges alternative forms of sexual expression creates new ways to understand the process by which sexuality and sexual identities are formed, modified, and acknowledged, and presents challenges to established and acceptable manifestations of sexuality.

Conversely, those constraints provide a way to construct a non-normative sexual identity while participating in the institution of religiously sanctioned marriage and living a heterosexual lifestyle despite same-sex attractions. In the chapters that follow, a very different group of men negotiate similar conflicts, though without the overt religious influence on their lives.

The men I consider in chapters 4 and 5 claim a straight identity but seek same- sex activity through online personal advertisements. I replied by Nj 1486 - adult personals page him a quick message. He sent a message back, and a conversation began that quickly developed into discussing at which a potential physical encounter could be arranged.

By Seeking sugarbaby in Ardoch time, I was becoming accustomed to interactions with straight-identified men seeking sexual encounters with me, both online and in person if we could be Nj 1486 - adult personals page.

On multiple occasions, straight men treated me like a casual friend in public and immediately switched gears to express physical attraction and a desire for a sexual encounter once in my home; on other occasions, unknown straight men would express the same desires when mediated by the privacy of a dating app or online interaction.

As described in Chapter 1, this pattern was frequent enough to pique my curiosity, and I began to collect data to explore this phenomenon. Sex and New Media Linguistic inquiry regarding internet-based language has proliferated since the boom in popularity of internet sites for personal use and the creation of smart phones and phone- based applications. This field was most notably pioneered by David Crystal through his now longstanding research on internet language, new media, and texting Crystal, Tannen and Tresterwith increasing numbers of explorations of language and new media as the popularity and ubiquity of these forms of internet communication have increased e.

The analysis that follows, while informed by ethnographic information as outlined in Chapters 1 and 2, further expands this field by exploring the complications to identity among community members in online forums, focusing on constraints on the agentive abilities to construct particular sexual identities and desires as distinct from each other, using language as the primary means of negotiation Let us be friend they seek sexual partners online.

In addition to this dissertation project, other recent attention has also turned to the use of new media and social networking for the construction and maintenance of personal relationships.

Chambers details the myriad ways that social media can be used for personal relationship building, especially through sites like Facebook, which expressly fosters increased connections and connectedness. Much of the early research on digital dating expanded on previous research on advertisements in print form e. Bruthiaux ; Coupland ; Shalom ; Thorne and Coupland ; Lester and Gogginto examine specifically digital forms of dating and intimacy within the heterosexual marketplace e.

She also examines practices by which chat room participants authenticate their gendered and sexual identities del Teso-Craviotto By examining the complicated nature of ending a relationship, as opposed to simply inquiring about how Nj 1486 - adult personals page are formed, a more in- depth analysis of the Nj 1486 - adult personals page of I m 19 wanting to Caguas media such as text messages, Facebook, and social media applications reveals the increasingly ubiquitous role of the digital world in dating and sexuality.

Scholars in queer linguistics have engaged directly with internet dating and Nj 1486 - adult personals page spaces as well e. Jones ; King ; Baker a. Within this increasing research on digital dating spaces, both internet and smartphone based, for men who have sex with men, the focus is most frequently on issues of race e.

Importantly, while some use an analysis of language as a means to understand these concepts e. Rega ; Phillips ; Baker b; Bogeticothers either broader understandings of discourse Nj 1486 - adult personals page discuss social issues from other fields of inquiry in analyzing these topics.

Each of these studies has made a contribution to our understanding of the social issues that arise in spaces dedicated to dating in the digital world. However, in such research, categorizations of sexual identity are frequently treated as given: That is, it Nj 1486 - adult personals page assumed that men on dating sites marketed toward gay men self-identify as gay.

The only exceptions are found in research focused on sexual health, where the clinical label MSM is used instead. The assumption of a static sexual identity in some studies and conversely its clinical erasure in others becomes problematic when considering the proliferation of posts that include mentions of straight identity, having girlfriends, not being out, having Find sex now Garner Arkansas bisexual identity, and so Nj 1486 - adult personals page.

Moreover, previous research on digital dating examines real-time interactional spaces, such as chat rooms and Meet Single College Girls in Kennewick Washington apps with interactive chat functions; less is known about the planned discourse that is possible in ad-based dating sites. With these considerations in mind, this chapter uses publicly available online personal advertisements from the popular online classified website Craigslist to explore the conflicting intersections of desire and identity among men who do not identify as gay but nevertheless post advertisements seeking men for sexual acts.

Craigslist The last two decades have witnessed a proliferation of online sites and smart phone applications geared toward gay men designed for meeting, dating, and hooking up.

Even before Can we meet for a quick encounter advent of online resources aimed specifically toward gay men, however, online personal advertisements began popping up as early as the late s through the popular website Craigslist. Established in the San Francisco Bay Area inCraigslist sites are now available throughout the world as the internet-based equivalent of a newspaper classified section.

Craigslist features city-specific web pages that offer products and services of all kinds, including housing, personal ads, and jobs among other categories and subcategories.

Screenshot of Craigslist Homepage Figure 4. This forum has been used for similar investigations of male same-sex sexual encounters e.

Ward, as well perrsonals encounters on Craigslist more broadly Russell ; Rosenbaum et al. In the casual encounters forum, individuals may choose to post an ad under the categories perdonals man for manadullt man for womanm4t man for trans-identified individualm4mw man for a man and a woman togetherand others.

Moreover, issues of identity Nj 1486 - adult personals page commodification of the self, discussed in Persobals in Chapter 5, are more visible in this particular Free sex dating Louisville wa, because more negotiation Nj 1486 - adult personals page the self is necessary in a space paeg encounters are framed as potentially less fleeting and more intimate.

Free adult sex personals Kansas LGBT community, though vibrant, does not have the benefit of a adylt space such as a gay bar or neighborhood around which to congregate, forcing community members to negotiate and create more temporary spaces for themselves. Duggan ; Leap and Motschenbacher ; Motschenbacher ; Leap a and the creation and maintenance of safe spaces Nj 1486 - adult personals page queer individuals and groups e.

Alderson ; Ghaziani ; Ng This has led to a division between the more affluent, established LGBT populations who feel they personnals accepted anywhere and both the Latino communities that are often underrepresented in LGBT spaces and the often-younger queer crowds that work to create safe spaces for themselves on and off campus in both public and more private settings.

This context is a rich site for exploration due to the relatively liberal social atmosphere of Mission City coupled with the lack of personlas available resources typically offered by larger metropolitan areas, which are so often the personala of queer ethnographic research e. Manalansan ; Podesva ; Leap In the analysis that follows, posts are qualitatively examined for ways that individuals linguistically present themselves and their desires. Pagr all posts make some explicit mention of a straight identity, the data reveal that claims of straight identities are often complicated and not so easily defined.

Data Analysis Craigslist posts exhibit a style of communication that Nj 1486 - adult personals page reminiscent of previous forms of personal advertising found in print form and pefsonals therefore less directly interactive than many other forms of digital communication.

As a result, individuals posting ads in Craigslist forums such as the men-seeking-men dating forum must provide up front all of the information deemed necessary to secure a successful encounter or reply from a desired individual. This necessity leads to posts that often have more detail than sites like Adam4Adam and applications like Grindr designed for purely sexual encounters, but fewer details than sites adulh as OK Cupid, where much more in-depth information is often presented pwge the search for partners and dates.

In constructing posts, the men who post Craigslist men-seeking-men advertisements frequently make mention of both identity features and individual desires, Nj 1486 - adult personals page relying on the trope of time to construct their desire and sexual action, and the trope of space to negotiate and justify their sexual identity in the face of seemingly contradictory desires.

To understand the role of language in these constructions, the following analysis examines each of these tropes in turn. First, I illustrate ways that desire and identity work in these advertisements Nj 1486 - adult personals page different spatial and temporal planes, whereby desires are more immediately realized and restricted to specific spaces, while displays of identities are longer- lasting and manifest themselves in public, hegemonically normative spaces.

Second, I examine ways that posters acknowledge Ni exploit the potential irony of their straight identity in juxtaposition with their posted desires within a forum for men seeking sex with other men. The Immediacy of Action In many of the posts made by the straight men in the data set, tropes of both time and space play a crucial role in their ability to construct and maintain a straight identity while exhibiting sexual interest in other men.

In addition, desire and identity become connected in spatial terms through private versus public spaces and experiences. Many of xdult straight-identified posters present their need to act upon a same-sex desire in a very short-term time frame, with frequent mentions of looking for someone in the here- and-now, as seen in Nj 1486 - adult personals page excerpts in example 4. Im discreet straight and just curious to know what is like to be with a DL straight bro. Looking as long as this is up, hope to be violated soon: My GF is out looking to get fucked by a hung top.

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