Often a partner says: The problem is that marital discussions as to what constitutes unacceptable behaviour happen after the event, not before — but they should. So is a drunken smooch with a colleague cheating?
The only way you can know whether a cheeky text flirtation or close, undisclosed friendship is cheating, therefore, is to talk to your partner — preferably before engaging in any of it. The one-off drunken snog Context matters.
Honesty after the event is key. The decent Married woman dance activity texting friend is to confess straight away: The partner would have the right to ask why it happened, and to feel hurt and furious. Therein lies the problem. If you have a very close friendship with someone else, your partner should know about it.
Either way, saying nothing is a red flag. All too often in the clinic I hear: Is that drink really so innocent?
Let your moral compass guide Sweet wives seeking hot sex Clermont. Do we have the integrity to admit that to ourselves?
Test your emotional honesty: What a bore life would be Married woman dance activity texting friend there were no joyful sparks of connection, ever, with anyone bar your spouse.
Otherwise they would morally equivocate and say to themselves: I hear tales like this in my practice a lot. Are there any circumstances under which it would be acceptable? On one side there must be some hurt, because one person finished it. Why pick at a scar? If your partner finds out, they will rightly feel suspicious, and think: You fantasise about someone else not just sexually Urgup pussy Urgup Married woman dance activity texting friend of fantasy is not the end of the world, but keep it to yourself and draw a line.
Is your partner merely performing the physical act while you dream of someone else? If you have feasted your eyes and your senses — have fun at home. In a really secure relationship, no one is under threat because of the existence of attractive others. Especially if you are happy to joke about it with your partner. Digital flirtation, may never make it to real life, but it is still deceitful, cheating behaviour, and you know that. Using someone else to feel good about yourself suggests low self-esteem and a habit of taking attention where you can get it.
Potentially hurting three Sex dating in Burneyville at once — yourself included — is quite a feat. It can be a powerful way to create connection again when you do it along with practicing the other Intimacy Skills. You sound very committed. Laura, I feel like you wrote this post just for me. Thank you so much. I love your advice Married woman dance activity texting friend this post to get happy.
I keep forgetting that I can change how I feel by choosing to be with people who love and Married woman dance activity texting friend me…and who are fun. He has been gone for six months, and lives miles away.
We only communicate by Swingers Personals in Cisne or text. I have been devastated for six months, but have reigned in my expression of pain for the last four of them. I have read your books and many of your blog posts, and still cannot figure out whether I am within the spirit of surrender if I surprise him at work he works in a casino looking HOT next weekend.
He responded poorly the last time I surprised him like that, but did give me a long hug. That time, I had not heard of the Surrendered Wife and the skills you teach.
Sandra, I love your commitment to your marriage! I think your idea sounds great. Makes me want to get you some support too so you can have some other avenues to begin connecting with him again. Consider a complimentary discovery call here: Thank you for this Married woman dance activity texting friend. Any suggestions when living separately and you are practically nonexistent to him and his interests are not healthy for you to share?
What if contact now usually involves him being nice for a while for intimacy?
Thank you again for this article. That sounds Married woman dance activity texting friend painful, and you deserve better! And you can have so much more once you know the Intimacy Skills. Your friends and family are trying to protect you and they mean well, but acitvity may not be the best sources for this particular challenge unless they have also had a struggling relationship and turned it around. To talk to a woman who has been where you are and now has a playful, connected marriage, apply for a complimentary discovery call here: My husband is leaving in the house but sleeping in another bedroom since he told me he is done He said he would never be able to love like he did once and this past 10 years were bad for him… He is balming me for every thing.
Off course I have faults but the sad part Mwrried he is not seeing his. How to seduce somebody like that? Laura, this reminds Danec of a client Maarried had in a similar situation. She sent me an email saying they were so physically affectionate now that the kids were getting grossed out. Thanks for your thoughts. That is from my counselor who brings in the jerry springer lie detector on the husbands she said only one man has passed the lie detector test in her offices so far.
Donna, If he is a chronic cheater, someone who is not capable of being faithful, then I would have a different perspective. You know which one he is Married woman dance activity texting friend. Just ask your gut. Focusing on Married woman dance activity texting friend good parts, on what makes you happy can be a powerful way of breaking out of the trap of thinking your happiness depends on him.
I have read both your books and it has changed my marriage. Almost a year ago my husband told me he wanted a divorce. It was a wake up call and literally about a Better first dates - Luther OK 3 somes later I stumbled upon your book at barnes and noble.
I feel it was meant to be because out of all the self help books yours was the one I pulled out and purchased and it changed my marriage and life forever. Actvity on your success in saving your marriage.
I know what that takes and I admire your courage and humility. A lot of women would take inspiration and hope from your story! Casey, Id love to hear how things are going with you since you Married woman dance activity texting friend this. I love happy endings and I am hoping to glean something positive from you! I may try things your way. Donna, I hear you, but I think this is a different situation than a new relationship.
It can be powerful. Judging by the huge response to this article I get the impression that this a real toughie. Reading First Kill etc the examples are predominantly about situations where the Married woman dance activity texting friend is still home. Makes it a lot easier to see changes immediately Hookers women in Albany when husband has left the opportunities are reduced and you really want to Married woman dance activity texting friend them count.
Harlech women who want to fuck for one, would like to see more comments and real life stories with in a scenario where the husband is not present. Can I ask you Laura to provide a greater proportion of the separated scenario? The above suggestions are great, and I have been implementing them religiously but getting some traction takes a lot of doing. It really makes all the difference.
Something I have ffiend which helps me. Practice skills on others, especially males in your life. I used respect on my 16 year old son in telling him I was soooo impressed with his study efforts for the year and I really respected his commitment for an extended period.
Guess what, he resumed his coming to say goodnight and giving me a hug. Another example was when I was talking to a male coworker. I really made a point of actually listening to Married woman dance activity texting friend, actually looking at them, nodding, affirming what they said. Wokan about 45 minutes after the convo they came across to my workplace and resumed further discussion. I think they felt comfortable speaking to me So I guess when hubby is absent you get to Adult dating XXX grand Torrance fucking and make mistakes and no Married woman dance activity texting friend is dwnce the Horny McCarley women, plus you build your other relationships…….
Not so bad after all. Patience is the key, but you can have a multiplier effect on affirmations that the skills work from interactions with others. But I think you need to repeat the dance all over again each time textng keep a mans interest.
Then he gets the reward his reptilian brain wants sex. For me, the beauty of the 6 Intimacy Skills are that they help me stay focused on what I can control—which is me—instead of trying to control my husband. No man in his right mind is going to chase a controlling shrew. For me, the focus had to be on Laura—not on how John would react.
No game playing required. Laura that sounds amazing! I would love to have my husband back…. Tina, I know it feels hopeless, and I can see why you feel that way, but I have witnessed so many miracles in situations like yours. Adult personals chico ca sex priv free i Severn told you NOT to file the divorce.
There really is hope. That would make a huge difference. If they can do it, why not you? You can get details here: We are still living apart buy have come a long way. We do all things together as a family we have an 18 month oldincluding going to church weekly. I recently found out I was pregnant again so this has been increasingly difficult.
He still has not shown readiness to move back in together and now I feel even more neglected. I have noticed he gets very unhappy when he feels that he is responsible for any acttivity feelings I have.
How do I manage this at this point he had an emotional affair when I was pregnant with our first child and still put on a happy face when I feel so hurt and alone? I know things could be worse. I just want to finally be reconciled. Miss, Congratulations on your progress dannce your relationship.
That is so exciting and impressive! Consider having Married woman dance activity texting friend complimentary discovery call here: You know my situation. I read your book i read again and again…and i thought i want to solve My marriage.Single Women Seeking Men In Itasca County Minnesota MN
It really is contributing to world peace to make your own marriage whole again. And I think I hear you saying you would like to be a coach who helps other women do the same thing you did. Do I have that right? If you would like to talk about becoming a coach, come and schedule a call about that here: Sorry I just feel Married woman dance activity texting friend about I feel like this is not good advice if you wish to have a healthy committed relationship.
Donna, I hear you and I trust that you are the expert on your own life. I know it seems incredibly risky to seduce a man who also has a mistress.
In my experience good guys only cheat because they are starving for respect, which is like oxygen for them. Choosing to look past the infidelity at the big picture of the marriage is a way of acknowledging that you recognize you did some things to contribute to this outcome just like I unwittingly wrecked my marriage and that there is still something worth saving, something even better than what you had before.
But a good guy who makes a bad decision in an attempt Naughty women Aberdeen phone number get oxygen…that relationship can be saved and be better than ever. I see it all the time. I am very good to my former husband and boyfriends. This crushes me and I feel like it Married woman dance activity texting friend cheating.
I am going to try your techniques. Laura, My situation is a little different in that my husband is going through midlife crisis. I desperately want my marriage back. My biggest issue when all of this happened is that my codependency blew up like crazy and I acted like a crazy woman. I have been trying to reform my actions and be respectful and concentrate on healing myself for me and our 3 children, ages 25, 16 — from my first marriage and a 9 year Married woman dance activity texting friend.
He says I frustrate him to death. I see that I have taken over so much in our married life that I Someone to fuck Salt Lake City Utah have seemed like his mother and emasculated him.
Please do you have any advice on what to do in this situation? I will definitely try everything you have suggested. This has been very eye opening for Married woman dance activity texting friend I suggest you get your hands on The Empowered Wife—you can get it at the library for free. It will show you exactly how to practice The Six Intimacy Skills. I admire your commitment and your willingness to look at how you may have contributed to the current situation.
Krista J.'s husband is hanging out with another woman. Is that wrong? "He told me they are just friends, but he has been leaving me to go hang out with. A kiss between two Strictly dance partners has got everyone talking about But we're all fallible, and if it's genuinely a one-off, I'd doubt this would end a marriage. If you have a very close friendship with someone else, your partner . my practice is that men pretend that they need more sex than women. But like most couples, there are also times, when her husband pecks away at ( Since then, she has made her point a bit more clearly by texting him her as soon as his family is busy with an activity; it's the nature of his job, he said. For women, a great conversation with your partner is a turn-on, since it.
Laura-We are miles apart because of jobs and selling a house. When he went back-he shut off the phone and all communication. On Tues, he said he was coming.
I sent a letter and Christmas gifts-no response. I did send an apology letter which he will get Saturday.
I took responsibility for my actions and it was an I letter, but no begging or trying texring get back together. Womaan has cut off all financial support. It may not seem like it right now, but I definitely think you can revitalize your marriage and Girls Slovenia want sex it great again. Consider having a complimentary discovery call to explore texging possibilities before you book that flight: Our NYE sucked and I Married woman dance activity texting friend the whole night feeling sorry for myself and silently grieving what appears to be the death of our once beautiful and passionate relationship.
He is not interested in sex. Last year we took a mini vacation and we may as well just stayed home. It was about as sexy and fun as cleaning the chimney.
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We used to be absolutely mad about one another! I have relegated myself to the spare bedroom. Maybe I can pull off a sexy Frida Kahlo to get his attention. Submissive Daphne male seeks dominant female, Sounds very lonely. I hear plenty of resentment and I know that was part activityy what kept me lonely in my marriage. Sounds like you could definitely use some support.
I apologize for the pity-party-poor-me rant. Honestly, I became tired of listening to her constant complaining about her husband and their finances and her stress. I continually advised her to put all the finances on him and take better care Falls Church female massage herself. Then finally, I recommended your book. Anyway, my guy really is a wonderful man whom I adore with all my heart.
I also know he loves me truly. You are correct, it is resentment. I needed someone to identify it, so thank you for that. Paternal abandonment and trust issues most likely. Part of Married woman dance activity texting friend self-care is resolving some of those fruend issues once and for dace. Surrendering is not an easy Married woman dance activity texting friend.
It shakes things up within ourselves that need tecting be identified and addressed appropriately.
We were back to our usual selves tonight. I still choose to sleep in the spare bedroom at this time ddance. One more thing, Laura. How do we develop and present our spending plan? That alone was a big step for us. Sandy, I appreciate your humility and accountability. I have been married for 30 years. About 10 years ago it was discovered that I had a vascular problems.
And since have lost my left leg below the knee and partial right foot. I have been in the hosp 38 times in 10 years. I have continued working in a high power position.
We live a very nice life which I support. He came home and told me he does not love me anymore and is in love with someone else. He knows her from 30 years ago. Id there any hope or do I Married woman dance activity texting friend say goodbye.
I feel very alone and have nobody! With the illness and the marriage I feel like Married woman dance activity texting friend us nothing to live for. Sherrt, Wow, that sounds very tough! That must be devastating! I know it seems hopeless right now, but I can unequivocally tell you that there Married woman dance activity texting friend every reason to be hopeful about your marriage. It will be the trip of your life, and in my experience completely worth taking in so many ways.
Hang in there Sherrt! This is what I like to call the breakdown before the breakthrough. Married woman dance activity texting friend invite you to apply for a complimentary discovery call to connect with one of my coaches here: My husband and I have been separated for 2 months. I have apologized for my part in contributing to our problems. We have 4 boys, 2 know that he has cheated. I told him to fight for our family, to fight for us and to not give up. He does not think we can salvage our marriage.
I am fighting for my marriage and trying to remain as calm as possible. Any input would be greatly appreciated. Dee, that sounds like a very painful situation! Phone sex Susano suggest a complimentary discovery call to discover the best move for revitalizing your relationship.
I know you want your marriage back and part of saving it will be making it Single lady looking real sex Durham again too. Things that help to dabce connections with your husband, how much texting??? Is it better to make a brief phone call as opposed to texting. What things have worked…. My husband 2 months ago decided Married woman dance activity texting friend as we were separated then a birthday present was out of the question as it acctivity give the wrong idea about his decision to leave the marriage.
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Some of your advice mirrors what my program teaches me and the 12 Steps and my program have been monumental in turning my life around! One example, is taking responsibility for my part in the Paterson girls nude of our marriage.
I pushed my husband away when he wanted to be intimate because I was uncomfortable with myself, and when we would be intimate it was painful for me so he just gave up.
I have been extremely lazy also and not kept our home clean which is important to my husband. I have been so selfish, lazy, irresponsible and just downright neglectful of my Married woman dance activity texting friend. We also have a 15 year old daughter whom we love dearly. When my husband got sober I shifted my focus from Married woman dance activity texting friend to control him onto our daughter and treated her horribly.
Screaming and yelling and sometimes throwing things. I found out in late March of that he was having an emotional affair with a female that he is in program with. I also considered this female to be a friend, which hurt immensely. He also told me he had cheated two other times since getting sober. The first time was 5 years ago and he said there were others before he got sober. He is not the same person he was before sobriety so the infidelities prior to that are adtivity as big of a deal to me.
I realize this all inconsequential anyway and that nothing can change our past. My husband has recently told me that he is not in love with me anymore he still cares but the connection is lost. I, on Topeka Kansas iowa teen hookers other hand, feel vriend connected to him than I have in years. I have been through a sexual revolution and no longer fear sex with my husband and I love it.
We have gone wwoman six sessions with a marriage counselor. He is still talking and texting to the other woman, in fact, they see each other several times a week at meetings.
He says activitt feels like he has a spiritual connection with her. This hurts me to the very depths of my soul. I had an activvity heart to heart conversation with him last night and asked him to try to let me in his heart again because he Married woman dance activity texting friend feels numb about it right now.
I also need to let you know that in not working for the past 15 years I have nothing to call my own. I have been completely dependent on my husband but I am trying to find employment and am making positive changes in my life. I have huge growth in my faith and relationship with my God which is the only thing that keeps me sane some days! He tried to make suggestions for us to work on things earlier in our marriage and I just ignored him!
He is still at home with me but I just hope and pray that he decides to give us another try to be happy. If there is any experience, strength, hope or advice anyone can offer, I Marriied be most appreciative! Thank you again Laura and all the women who have posted things!
This deserves a longer conversation, so I invite you to have a complimentary discovery call to explore and discover the best move for your relationship. I feel my husband substitutes our time together to be more active in his program. I realize his sobriety has to come first but there is no balance. Sorry for the book I am a thorough person.Hottie New Orleans Mom
I forgot something else!!! He is very respectful but withdrawn and quiet much of the time. Friendly make out sessions it wrong for me to love him through this indecision and not knowing what to do?! He and the other woman had sex only one time just wanted to add that. Im kinda going through this right now…my husband is supposed to leave on Friday! Can you give me any advice…i feel like we dont need no time off of each other…i want my girls to Married woman dance activity texting friend happy with is together!
And i believe that theres no such thing as no love…we have the decision to change and love day by day…. You can do it here: BAS, Sorry to hear.
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I did not Blow my 10 cock the vacation at all, and after we returned home, I complained a lot. I gradually became nagging and demanding without being aware. I told him I wanted a baby sooner or later, and he did not want it at all. I thought he was so lazy to even have a child. I was working 12 hours every day and it was getting worse. I hated my job, and complained about it all night when i got home. I told I wanted to quit and take a break for a couple months, he said OK.
But my parents insisted that I should not quit, that I was in depression and needed to take antidepressants. I started to take Lustral. I was feeling much better, but it killed my sex drive. I started doing it like a weekly duty. I also became numb and indifferent.
A couple months later, I still hated my job, so I quit. They wanted me to stay for 5 months until they find new personnel, I said OK what a dummy. So I kept taking Lustral and working late hours and having robotic sex. When I could Married woman dance activity texting friend leave work, I also left the drug and my libido and personality started to come back. I then realized that we had grown apart with my husband.
I noticed his basketball bag was at home. I called him and told him this, he said his equipment was in the car, but i knew that they were in the bag. So I asked him to take a picture of his friends or a Married woman dance activity texting friend with a ball or something and send me.
Estimates are that 25%% of women and 50%% of men will have Innocent flirting and office banter turns into lunch together, texting or emailing in off hours. . it was an affair because she was unhappy and was planning to leave. I never wanted to be a poor partner/husband/father/lover/friend, etc. Every woman who has dated men has at some point said something to the a delicate dance of trying to ascertain the other person's intentions. Luckily for me, he texted me after the first time we hooked up and let me know that he still saw us as platonic friends, despite the hookup—which was fine with. Protect your marriage by avoiding friendships with members of the in a man having a casual friendship with a woman when either is married? You'd want to find activities that brought out the best in your child .. her husband, rather than helping her, sits in front of the TV texting. Marriage Dances.
He said OK, I hung up and started crying. Then he sent me a photo of his colleages playing basketball. He was having dinner with a female colleague. He said nothing happened between them but he was Lonely looking sex Tampa attracted to her. They ate lunch together for a couple times and he told her he liked her.
We live like roommates. You are so ambitious and I just want to have a good time, I dont acticity kids or raise money to buy a house.
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He comes home early every day, and sometimes drives me to work in the mornings. He bought me a dress for valentines day, which I said I liked while passing by a store. The thing is, I cant get over what happened. Its a thousand ton luggage on me, and I dont know how to trust him anymore.
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You can apply for a complimentary discovery call to uncover you best move for your relationship here: Bahar- I so totally understand your feelings. I felt I was abandoned in another state, which in reality. He cut off all communication and did not come for pre-arranged visit nor come to help when he knew I was scheduled for surgery.
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I finally flew up there…. I am so angry and hurt…. I am beyond confused. Looks like you have all the chance to make it work. He wants to forgive and forget, that sounds good to me. But you cant get over what happened right? I know its hard, im doing the same thing right now, and im on the edge of getting my luggage and leaving the hell out of this house.
Whenever i feel angry at him, textiny grab the phone, call him and have some small chat. Its such a small thing but it helps greatly. Hope you have your marriage back. I know you will. I am dying to put your Wisdom to practice but my husband left me, is two hours away and refuses to speak to Married woman dance activity texting friend.
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That does sound painful. I hope you have friends and family who Married woman dance activity texting friend can connect with during this time! I was so blind and took advantage of him thinking he would never leave me. I begged for counselling and he says he just flat out does not have any desire to feiend on us. Cativity just left today with the kids out of town to visit friends and family. I miss my kids like crazy already, but him even more. Is this even something that sounds salvageable?
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Shayna, I know it looks activiy right now, but this can absolutely be fixed! Apply for a complimentary discovery call, and also check out this free webinar: Hi again, I jist finished reading First. That he simply just does NOT want to try. I feel so beaten down. Am I being naive to want to still fight for us? I explained to him that if he is going to Married woman dance activity texting friend anyway just for the kids and be unhappy with me, then why not CHOOSE happiness and give it one last shot?!
I mean, what does he have to lose?? I DONT want to give up on us, but is this simply inevitable? Shayna, Great job taking fast action of reading The Empowered Wife! It may take some time for his feelings to come around again and that is completely normal.
They will come around again if you are practicing the skills, but watch out for your blind spots. Thanks for your continued support. However, as ibread your book, all the examples used were women thinking aboutbdivorcing theirbhisband. There is very little I would want different from Married woman dance activity texting friend. Hes always been extremely helpful around the house, an amazing hands on dad, cooks every meal, a very caring and selfless man to everyone he knows.
Have Marrisd had any clients in a similar situation and get their activitt back? But he avoids me at all costs. If I try to even say 2 words to him he either ignores me or makes sure to not textung at me and puts his head down. Shayna, Yes, I see situations like yours Married woman dance activity texting friend completely and become better than ever all the time.
I have seen many women in far worse situations revitalize their marriages. No need to feel defeated. Love to see you get support! I want to add that he told me how beautiful I am when we made love that night. He was never one to compliment. Hi Shayna, Reading your story is as if they where my own words…. My husband told me less than two months ago that he no longer was in love with me. We have two small children. I have read the books and had my discovery call but as my means are limited I have not yet signed up for coaching.
I would love to hear what happened in your case? Hello Laura, I found out in September that my partner of 18 turbulent years was very intimate with another woman. I have read alot since then and finally came across your book. I have been using the techniques and even wrote a vulnerable, jump off the fence letter for him on valentines day.
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You can apply for a discovery call here: Hello again, i applied for the discovery session but the available hours wont do for me because i live on the textting side of the world. I will wait until my husband travels and then schedule a meeting. Until then, i want to ask something that consumes most of my energy.
My husbands affair was a short, nonphysical one but still equally devastating. Now i can see that he is happy in our marriage, he is trying to make things better but, the other woman is his colleague activlty are not in the same department but they have contact and she is still his facebook friend and she likes all his pictures even the ones with me arrrrrrrgh!
He told me that it was just a phase and its over now, but i still cant live with it. I want him to cut all contact with her. How do i ask this from him? That does sound devastating. I would LOVE to have you get a discovery call some day. This has had remarkable power for me since I get to pick what I will focus on, and what I focus on increases.
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So Ttexting will not express my frustration to him then. To justify my behaviour though: Seems to me that she is still trying to get my husbands attention and i think she still gets it, even though he doesnt Married woman dance activity texting friend to her outside work. I feel defeated and failed, because we are almost newly wed.
How could he be bored with me so soon? Anyways, i will schedule that session as soon as i can! Bahar, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I had a very similar situation happen to me this year. From that point I started to pretty much stalk him. I read text messages Marriex often as possible I logged on to his Facebook account and watched conversations with her unfold and even went as far as Married woman dance activity texting friend my cellular service providers detailed record of phone numbers that were texted and called on a Married woman dance activity texting friend basis.
Horny in hesperia woman was a friend of his from high school he swears that they have had no Marriex past but he still felt the needed to text her every day multiple times a day.
As I watched the text messaging unfold and the Facebook messages unfold I certainly did not like what I saw. This was definitely a emotional relationship as far as I was concerned. He has not met with this woman but I still dislike the fact that he was having this kind of affair. I can tell you this, I no longer worry about what he is talking to anyone else about. We have reconnected in a way that feels almost like Married woman dance activity texting friend we first started textiing.
It is actually pretty amazing. We went from having sex once a month Married woman dance activity texting friend having sex almost everyday. Unfortunately I could not afford to be part of the online community of support that she offers but I go Married woman dance activity texting friend to the books and reread chapters or parts when I am feeling a little down or anxious about things.
My advice to you is to stop worrying about this other woman and start worrying about how to make yourself happy. Try to stay off of Facebook for a little while.
For me the temptation to check his messages was just too great. I cannot control who he talks to over the course of the day but I can control what I do. Our marriage has not been this wonderful in 10 years.
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